Human waste facilities

When does the flush cycle end? How long do adults allow other adults to use them as a place to "squat"? How long will women cry to each other that "He done me wrong!" I'm not sure who men cry to, but I know there are also men who allow themselves to be used.
I understand the innocence of blossoming young adults who think the world is "all about them". Then they experience a couple of rude awakenings & slaps in the face of "love". Now, in my experience there are two choices when you've had painful experiences in the name of love:

1) Continue to walk in the path of "ignorance" - do the same things, spend time with the same types of people who hurt you along the way, continue to cry to your "closest" friends that you don't understand why these painful episodes keep happening.

2) Get a GRIP! Take a closer look at yourself, your habits, your relationship with a higher power (what ever your faith) and DECIDE what part you are willing to play in this whirl-d of relationships. GO into relationships with both eyes and heart open! Be slow to bruise & quick to heal! Know that we as individuals have a great deal of control over who we let into our worlds, and how long we allow them to stay there once we have learned WHO they REALLY are. Stop kidding ourselves - people are NOT that difficult to read - if you're really paying attention.

Be sure that u want to hear my answer if you come to me for advice. I don't hold hands & tell u what u want to hear. Once I realize that's all u want, u'll get my answering service on the regular. Time above ground is a precious commodity. I don't have time for pity parties. Trust me - I have this same talk with myself, regularly!

Which selection will U make? 1) Continue in Ignorance or 2)Practice self analysis & improve your relationships overall, starting with the relationship with your Creator?

To those who have hurt me in the past - I Thank you & release you from any ill feelings I may continue to harbor unwittingly. You have taught me: Living WELL is the best revenge! Without your kix in the a$$ I would not be the alert, confident woman that I am today!

To those who I have hurt along the way - Please accept this public apology. Blame it on the arrogance & ignorance of youth. Without your love and support I would not be the loving, confident woman that I am today!

NOTE: A fellow Blogger, Lisa Q. is offering an AMAZING e-class for those who need HELP with relationships and can't bear my brusque manner:-). When you get to her site you'll see on the top left column the offer on How to Attract the Relationship You Want. You can email her for details before you sign up, too!

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