Grown Freakin' Friday: MALE responses ONLY: ADULT subject matter for those over 18

Taking a turn from porn cuz I have a question that came to mind when 12Kyle posted this scenario.

Now, 12kyle's married & a couple other of u male bloggers are married. So, I want to hear your "take" on the whole wait out the physical intimacy concept. Some say the wait 3 months rule is a mind game. Some say once the milk's been tested he'll no longer want the cow. U get the idea - the clichés run the gamut -- some for waiting others against it! Personally, I have no answer: I've tried the waiting: *looking 'round: still single*. I've thrown convention to the winds: *looking 'round...yep, still single*. I know the image says waiting is exciting anticipation, but how long is too long/too short and what's a Grown Woman with needs to do who prefers a stable long term relationship? Maybe u can help a sistah out, cuz when we had this discussion at church -- there were no good answers! Tha's another post cuz that was the funniest thing I've ever seen at church! LOL!

Ladies - if you're married or in a serious relationship - I only want to "hear" your MAN'S perspective. I may even delete female responses because this is not a debate. I simply want to know what Men honestly think (feel free to log in as anonymous;-). So, Sistahs let's let the Fellas SPEAK on IT! I may come up with a question for the Ladies later. FELLAs U always say U want us to hush up & LISTEN... we're ALL EARS;-).

P.S. To all the MOTHER's - HAPPY Freakin' Mother's day ;-) ... & to the rest of us: HAPPY Children of Freakin' Mothers DAY! I mean the freakin' in a good way, of course!

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That Grass Sure Looks Green over there...

Technorati Authority - determines the number of hits a blog gets.

Dane Carlson's "Monetization" value scale - determines how much a blog i$ worth.

Electronic Villager's List of Top Black Blogs - determines how often blogs are read by other Black Bloggers (?).

OHellNawl'sBloggin'AzzBloggerAward - determines how "ignant" a blog can be.

I'm wondering if I'm being left out of a blog ru$h & fun that seems to be swirling around me. I have always been sort of "in my own world". I think that's the result of being the youngest child - I've had to entertain myself quite a bit and rarely concern myself with what's going on around me. Periodically, I'll look up from the books I'm reading or writing and wonder if I'm missing something.

So ... Am I ... missing something?

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Tough Love...Tough Questions...

Got a question for ya & would love your feedback. Check it out HERE. Thanx in advance for your responses!


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