Do you remember your first LOVE? Do you recall your first flirts or "crushes"? Do you remember how HIGH you felt, like you could touch the sky? Do you remember how frightened, yet exhilarated you were by this whole intimacy dance?
Come go with me as I share a couple of my precious first memories.
Beautiful Chocolate and a handful of change:
My dad stopped the car at a local Seven Eleven so that my best friend and I could get snacks on Wheeler Road in SE, DC. The most beautiful, chocolate man that my 13 or 14 year old eyes had ever seen was also in the store. I lost all sense of time, space or reality. I no longer recall what I purchased, nor who was in the store with me. I made my way to the check out counter and Beautiful Chocolate was behind me in line. My brain seemed to have shut down. I could no longer compute or communicate. Only my extreme awareness of the most beautiful man permeated my entire being; absolutely nothing else mattered to my brain. I held my change in my hand and it seemed I shifted the money around and around trying to make sense of what each of those objects in my hands were. Finally, Beautiful Chocolate came to my rescue and counted out the necessary coins for my purchase from my hands as I simply stared at him with complete, unpretentious awe.
Sister, Cousins and a car full of boys:
Walking along with my sister and several female cousins to a local recreation center in Hillcrest, DC I was used to boys stopping my elder female relatives to talk to them. When the car full of boys stopped I took up my resting pose as I waited for the usual exchange to take place. To my utter shock, one of the young men approached me. "How you doin'?" he asked with an easy smile. "What are you doing? I'm too young for this!"I responded. I recall watching his expression go from ease to true puzzlement. "How old do you think I am?" he asked. I looked carefully at him. I didn't want to hurt his feelings and tell him how old I really thought he looked, as I replied, "I don't know, at least 16. But, I'm only twelve." I must have given a satisfactory response at the same time that someone called for him to hurry up. He smiled again and said, "See ya later," as he ran back to the car.
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Sunday, January 14, 2007
First Love, Flirts & Crushes....aaaahhhh
Moved by The Creator, Merely posted by CapCity on 1/14/2007 1 whispered
Labels: coming of age, crushes, flirtation, love, passion, precious memories
Monday, January 1, 2007
Blogs I visit and highly recommend
I hope you'll enjoy these blog locales as much as I have (& continue to when time allows:-). If a link doesn't work please leave a comment and I'll fix it, pronto! Thanx!
- Added List of Brothers Blogging - check here if a Brother isn't listed below;-)
- AAOpinion
- A Place of Our Own & the list of author's blogs
- A Rich House [Newly Featured Author]
- A Sistah who Representz [Author: Diane Dorce]
- A Southern Diva
- A True Journey
- A. Morrison - 90 Days to Better Biz (& my unofficial mentor:-)
- Ain't Ms.Behaving - too badly;-)
- Ali's Zay:Bk & LovingBlog- There's Nothing anonymous about these lovers;-)
- An Angel, Wife, Mother, Writer & source of Inspiration
- An Imprisoned Brother's Heart & Soul
- An Xcentric Pryncess
- Anali's - cooking up more than her first amendment
- Aunt Jackie
- Author: Angeline Bandon-Bibum
- Author: Celise Downs
- Author: Deatri King-Bey
- Author: Gywneth Bolton
- Author: LaConnie Taylor Jones
- Author: Patt's Newsy Review
- B_More BapLife - a LIVE Sistah
- BB&GCMAC -
- Bklyn Diva
- Bloggers' Delight to Write - One Stop for Many Great Reads ... & Writes:-)
- Bloopty
- Brother Plez
- Ced It & Meant It
- Ced It for the Streets, too
- Christoph J. is a Seoul Brother
- Christopher's From the Left;-)
- Cortney Gee - one funny brother
- Dan's Blah Blah Blah (may still be on sabbatical)
- DC Speaks - from the MidWest
- Deeply poetic side of Don
- Deep in Thought
- Dejanae's too cool for words
- Delightfully Dyssturbed
- Dezel's Professionally Fine Spot on Va. Wines
- DurtyMo- has moved to a New SPOT
- Eb the Celeb - has a Renaissance side;-)
- Encouraging Brothers and giving Sistahs hope
- Eric Roberson - life of an indie music artist (Thanx 2 Lance for this experience!)
- FemiGog - SciFi lover
- GC's Radio V-spot
- GeminiGirl - a real Gee;-)
- GirlyGirl's Neurotica & Nonsense
- HottNikz
- In the Ethers with Dave
- Invisible Cinema
- Jac's Worldview
- Jali - has moved to a New SPOT
- Jewell - cruisin' on the ave
- K.O. Johnson - this Brother will have ya jonesin': u been warned;-)
- Kiki - Searching (invitation only)
- KimPossible's Prayers that Keep it Real - for those struggling w/ God & Religion
- KnewDay - Just Her Writing
- L.Renee - issues & sichications
- Lea78's Healing Sexuality
- Leon, Yea - He Said it!
- Lisa - on Dating in her forties
- Literary Butterfly - Jackie Y.
- Lo's Zone - Lolita Files' place
- Lola Gets ... to the point & is not for the faint of heart;-)
- Literary Felonies
- LoveBabz - Life in Transition
- Love Myself First
- Mel Avila Alarilla
- Ms. Killebrew
- Ms. KnowItAll
- Ms. Lee - writes - at a new spot!
- Ms. Puddin
- Ms. Smack - in the land DownUndah
- Muze - is so fly & fun-tabulous:-)
- NandiKerri - TechDiva & Friend
- Natarsha is a Seoul Sistah!
- Nicole - Undeniably:-)
- Nina's Eclectic Concepts
- O_HELL_Nawl! - crazy azz Blog-Team
- Opinionated Diva - hipped me to the voice widget;-)
- Organized Noise
- Princess Tinybutt - is such an inspiration to ME!
- PurpleZoe - thanx 2 Femigog for introducing me to this cool spot:-)
- Rethots - another's muses
- Shai (pron. Shay)
- Sharon - Just Write NOW! she said;-)
- Sheletha's Spot
- Sites of Black Women
- Soumy...4lovin'DaYoungstahs;-)
- Suite B - engaged & loving it!
- Suldog - one of the Sullivans
- Sullivan, D. - yes, they're related:-)
- Tabu's Essence of Life (invitation only)
- T. Stephens - is Raw, Dawg
- Tennis - Sistah Shelia's passion
- That BossMack - u luv or hate, but will not ignore!
- The Diva's Thoughts
- The Jokester & Brutally Honest Andrew
- The OE - That's all I know & all I can Tell ya;-)
- Working Artist - D. Marcel
- World United Bloggers
- Yanni's Block - A Hotttt Piece of .... Fiction
- YAZMAR - needs 2 b on the red carpet(s) - cuz she knows ALL the juice!
- Yellow Rebel
Moved by The Creator, Merely posted by CapCity on 1/01/2007 7 whispered
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